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so i felt that i wanted to do some graphics in response to some other ones.

i feel that these are things that people should consider and i did try to do them in a very non confrontative way

if anything is grammatically wrong or language/words are wrong please let me know!  words are not the thing i’m very good at u_u

(the dragonuni was inspired by some Cuteosphere images bc she is really fab. oh oh and Brozoi inspired these as well!)

sweet fucking mother of unholy fuck these are the most perfect.

When people who happen to be trans hate people who happen to be cis, it is because of their terrifying experiences and legitimate threat of personal autonomy and safety.

When people who happen to be cis hate people who happen to be trans, it is because of structural transphobia along with the destructive gender binary plus an overwhelming lack of education and empathy.

Those who are transgender often have legitimate reasons for hating this who are cisgender. If a person was viciously and savagely attacked by a group of dogs, and their parents scolded them and listed reasons why it is the persons fault and blamed the person rather than tending to the wounds, you would understand their intense dislike and distrust of dogs and people. Now replace the attacked person with a person who is transgender, replace the dogs with people who are cisgender and replace the parents with society.

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It makes me sick that someone’s own family member doesn’t support them. And being transgender doesn’t just happen overnight, I promise. You have no idea what your cousin is dealing with. I feel bad for her.

Feel bad for him* you don’t know him. You don’t know how much shit he gives us. You don’t know how many times he’s tried to rip our family apart. You don’t know how many times he’s insulted and blamed my grandpa when my grandma died of sickness. You don’t know how many times he’s insulted and belittled my parents. You don’t know how many times he’s insulted my sister. Calling her trashy because she has a nose ring. You don’t know anything so stop acting like you know everything.

And to be honest, she’s probably only mean to you because she’s hurt and feels unaccepted and unloved and by the way you’re talking about her, I completely understand why.

He can be hurt all he wants. He’s the one who put himself in that position. I am not obligated to fucking bow down at his feet and accept him then and there. He pushes everyone away. He wants everyone to accept him but then goes behind everyone’s back and talks mad shit about them? And cheats on his boyfriend? No. I will NEVER EVER feel bad for him or ashamed of my opinion. I’m not trying to shit on transgender people either, I don’t give a flying fuck what people do. Do what you want. But don’t expect everyone to accept you right then and there. Don’t demand respect just because you’re transgender. Respect is earned, not given out for free.

She didn’t choose the life she has. It’s not her fault she was born in the wrong body. And that’s super shitty that she talks shit about you guys, and even more shitty that she cheats on her boyfriend. For all I know, she could be the biggest asshole on the planet. All I’m saying is, pronouns are a human right. Everyone deserves to be addressed as their chosen name and pronouns. So you can hate her all you want, but hate her for reasons other than that she is just trying to be herself and make herself more comfortable.

I don’t hate him for who he chose to be. And yes it is a choice. I can’t stand it when people sit there and say they were born with the wrong body. Because I can bet you a million dollars your tiny baby brain didn’t know what transgender was. Yes some people actually wake up and tell themselves they are the other sex. My cousin did exactly that. He went 23+ years with being a guy and he worked out. He did guy things then all the sudden one day he woke up and decided he was going to be a “girl”. I’m not saying it isn’t hard for others to go through what TG do. His family, his immediate family accepts him or is close to it. That’s all he should need. But no he throws it in everyone’s face. I’m sure it’s very hard and it’s not a life I would want to live and have for myself. I’m all about supporting what rights people should have I have no problem with those kinds of people. But when those rights get shoved in my face I lose respect for that ONE person. I don’t lose respect for the whole community because that’s not fair.

Why would someone choose a life like that? No one would choose to spend literally hundreds of thousands of dollars to just make their body more of their own, no one would choose to get rejected and (often) kicked out of their homes, no one would choose to lose many of their close friends because of it, no one would choose to risk being physically beaten in public or called slurs like the ones you just used, no one would choose to not be able to use public bathrooms solely because they were unsafe, this list is endless. Nobody chooses this. And I promise, she didn’t wake up one morning and decide to be a girl. She woke up one morning and decided to tell someone. To be who she wants to be. And it’s a scary fucking world out there for trans people. She knew that, and that’s why it took her 20+ years to finally gather the courage to say “I deserve to be myself, I deserve to dress the way I want to, and I’m not going to let anyone hold me back or take my dreams from me.”

And ps- you shit on the entire transgender community with your first original post and again when you used rude slurs.

Let my “rude slurs” live on because that’s what I think. And I WILL address people what they came out of the womb as. Opinions are just like assholes, everyone’s got one. You know what else I think? Allllllll of you need to pipe the fuck down on the fucking rights shit and defending people you don’t even know. If I shit on the community I honestly do not care. Because that is MY opinion and nobody had to read MY opinion. Including you. Plus that was not my intention. Excuse me for not fucking bowing down on you peoples feet because you “deserve to be equal”. I DO treat everyone equal and my original post wasn’t even towards ANY of you. It was towards my cousin. You don’t know my cousin and all the bullshit he put his family through for attention. I suggest learning someone before defending them because he is the hugest fucking asshole I’ve EVER met. I don’t make fun of him. He makes fun of me and the quirks I couldn’t help when I was younger. I don’t walk up to people and say I hate them for their sexuality because that is absolutely shitty. Trust me. If I hate someone, I hate someone for GOOD reasons.

You’re allowed to have an opinion, but keep it to yourself if it’s something that hurts other people. I’ll respect your opinion as long as it doesn’t disrespect someones existence. And maybe the post was about your cousin, but it was a slap in the face to every transgender person out there. I’m not defending her, I’m defending the people you’re being an asshole towards. People like you are the reason we have to fight so hard for equality. Not everyone is lucky enough to be born in the body that matches our brains. So don’t talk about trans people as if you have any concept at all of what we go through. Keep your opinion to yourself. We don’t need your shitty opinion in our tag.

Mmhm. I’ve always loved the saying “you’re free to have your own opinion, even when it is different than mine. But when your opinion insults my existence, that is where the tolerance of ideas finds it’s end. You no longer are allowed to have an opinion. That clearly is power you cannot handle.” wheresshadowfax i’m proud of you babe. I know you hate tumblr fights and confrontation but you said what needed to be said. delightful-des nobody wants to hear what some phobic, angry and uneducated pinecone on the internet thinks. Shut up and please just swim away, you salmon.
You are late jumping in the sea little one. You can call me what you want. Ha. I’m not apologizing for anything I said. All of you idiots forget that you’re attacking me for my opinion. Im sorry I have my own thoughts and my own head that I use. I will say what I want when I want to say it. It’s America. Amendment number one. You both should give it a read. Go ahead let people push into your brain that being transgender is normal. I’m sorry to break it to all of you, IT. WILL. NEVER. BE. NORMAL. NEVER. EVER. I for one am not the only one who thinks this either. So get the fuck off my blog. You don’t deserve to be here if you’re going to attack my opinion.
“I live in America the land of equality and freedom so I have the right to be an asshole and you can’t call me out on it ohemgee stop it you’re infringing on my rights by educating me and calling out my toxic hatred”

Your ignorance literally makes me laugh. Ha. Yes I have the right to be an asshole. I don’t give a flying fuck if you call me out on it. Do it all day. I still won’t change what I think. Ever. And you don’t fucking know me and how I talk. I don’t fucking talk like that. Maybe you do though. I believe that guys and girls are to be treated equal. Being a guy and a girl is two different things. You can dress however the hell you want to, if you have a dick you are a guy if you have a vagina you are a girl. Refuckinggardless. Get your whiny ass, ignorant ass, mainstream ass, basic ass off my fucking blog. You aren’t worthy of being on here.

There is more than boy or girl. Sex and gender are all a spectrum. They are two different things that can come together in a variety of ways. Like mismatched socks. So try again.




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